yes sex sells, but remember your PERSONAILTY/ BEING YOURSELF is KEY
im tired of hearing this " only certain people can do it" nah legit everyone got a different type of fetish/type what there into. theres no way. they said i wouldnt be sucessful because i had tattoos, i was to skinny, and that im too short. meanwhile im over here living my best life. im tiny,skinny,tatted w. blue hair and im DAMN PROUD. im telling you being in this industry has helped my confidence and not in the way you might think it be. for a very long time, i was always a people pleaser, i never told anybody the word no. i never talked back. i was very quiet and submissive in a way. i was scared of what everyone always thought of me. i always had so much FEAR. it was honestly sad. so what i did instead was become a master on here, which is a type of fetish. yes out of all me i became more a DOM. but let me tell you something, shit was the best thing i ever did. i learned to say no. even though they were paying. even when i felt bad as FUCK. it was still a "roleplay" i almost felt like most of these roleplays were practice for me. and as i felt uncomfterable AF at first. i learned how to embrace it. this has helped me changed my behaviors in daily life. which also led me to becoming more and more sucessful. this is just an example of a self issue one of them, ive worked on. over the last 2 years.
and also too the amount of power i felt saying no. was insane it really made me realize within my own life my own worth & power. do you know how good it feels to say no if someone asks you for something and not feeling bad about it. knowing certain people take advantage of you for YEARS and now finally learning how to say no was an amazing feeling. i wasnt lacking confedence in my looks, it was the inside of me. now that i fixed the INSIDE of me, now i feel amazing, some days i still struggle. i would be lieing to say i have all the answers because i dont. everyone has those days its NORMAL.
don't try to be something you aren't, if you are having a bad day don't stream. people will notice it and the vibe. make sure you cleanse your vibe before you go on. people can tell when you fake it. people can tell when you aren't genuine. Be Kind to other models. dont bash/ or be selfish. when you do that your not empowering women. when a new model ask me questions i will always help them make sure they got everything they need and arent being taken advantage of by these CRUSTY ASSSSSS DUDES.
is help other models and make sure that they have all the basics down its up to them if they want to succed fully or not. i will give models when it comes to privacy, getting the right and SAFE people they need for certain things done. giving you tips and advice thats coming from an actual model. whos had people give me a false dream or hope. ive been there SO MANY TIMES. i will tell you everyone you need to stay away from, ESPICALLY people i know from my home state and florida, because i lived in both those states. and trust me back in those days, i was bout it, so i know who be scamming who. but yall gotta message me for that cause i dont know if i can put exact names on who contacted me. but i got a few names from long island, espically in suffolk county & FT lauderdale. legit these people will sell you a dream. when they be living at they momma house or in halfway. not having a pot to piss in.
if i can post it, lists will be up on who to not trust.
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